Relationships have so many stages. We all know this. And yet, we tend to give more energy to the euphoric ‘honeymoon phase’ because it is so, well, euphoric. The best relationship advice for new couples takes this exciting time into account but also prepares new, marriage-minded couples for a long-term path to eternal happiness.
It’s easy to focus on the wonderful feelings that come with being in a new relationship. Everything feels easy and somehow possible.
Anyone who has lost a spouse to death knows how the healing process is mixed with many emotions. For many, the experience is like losing a part of one’s own identity. Providing dating advice for widowers is an especially delicate task because the widower’s feelings are often complicated. He wants to experience love and companionship, however still feels loyalty to his late wife. This is true for widows as well.
However when compared to widows, however, widowers appear to be much quicker to remarry. A timeframe identified in the 1930’s is still the accepted average today. From the time of the late wife’s death to the time of the widower’s next marriage, the average length of time is two-and-a-half years. I have witnessed this with my own clients.
The most difficult part of divorce is wondering, “Can you find true love after divorce?” The truthful “yes” to that question may not be obvious if you are newly divorced and wondering what just happened to your life. And I will show you why it’s still “yes.”
As a dating coach, I work with all kinds of people who have been through all kinds of life experiences. Some are young and have never been married. Some are older and have never been married (and wonder if it is too late for them). And, some have had long marriages, filled with children and plans for the future.
As a dating coach, giving advice for finding true love isn’t a one-size-fits-all mission. Finding out what a client wants from a relationship and how best to meet that person is one of the most energizing traits of my work rather than what seems to most as an impossible dream.
Clients come in all shapes and sizes, span decades in age, and have vastly different personalities, talents, lifestyles, and careers. And yet, they are all seeking one common thing: a proven process and advice for finding true love that will stick this time.
You have to know what you want, before you can find it.
Finding love — true love — is such a simple thing, right? At least it seemed so, given what you saw in the movies and all the fairy tales you grew up with. But do you really know how to find love or if dating will really work for you?
The problem is that when it comes to finding your soulmate in real life, things aren’t nearly so simple. In fact, they can be totally confusing and frustrating.
However, looking for love doesn’t have to be a continuously painful endeavor. It doesn’t have to be a fruitless search. It also doesn’t mean you have to settle for “Mr./Ms. Right Now,” instead of “Mr./Ms. Right Forever.”
Working with Coach Amy changed my dating mindset, I dated so many Mr. Right-Nows...
