No one does romance like Hollywood. Even predictable plots with unrealistic but feel-good endings keep us sighing, swooning, laughing…and wanting more. And what woman hasn’t dragged her significant other to the latest romance flick in hopes he will learn how to be more romantic himself?
It’s a built-in magnet of sorts, this yearning for love and its mesmerizing, hypnotizing, invigorating accomplice we call romance.
Your past is your past. There’s not much you or anyone else, can do about it.
Perhaps you feel you’ve made some poor choices in life partners and people you’ve dated.
Maybe you’re hanging on to some past emotional baggage.
There are many beliefs about love. “Love should be easy. Love requires effort. Love is predestined. Love is what you make it.” And on and on.
Some people even think it’s OK to have someone else do the work for them. They don’t think it’s necessary to do the upfront work of preparing and searching for love.
You may not remember, but once upon a time people actually dated in person. Face-to-face, handholding, the whole bit. Thanks to the pandemic, however, date night has morphed into virtual date night for many romantic hopefuls.
I recently had a conversation with a millennial male client who was exploring coaching. He was an attractive, smart, industrious person. Although I could see that he would greatly benefit from coaching, what I heard was, “I know…relationships take work. But your program takes too much time and effort, and I don’t have time for it. I’m a very busy person.”
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