Frequently Asked Questions

A: The trick isn't simply finding someone.

The goal is to find someone who is right for YOU.

If you're in a committed relationship - great! (Although getting to engagement is way different and my clients appreciate my help to get them there.)

If you aren't then there's no use in waiting around for a relationship to fall in your lap.

You're responsible for doing the work of understanding what you truly want.

You're responsible for creating a plan to find that special someone.

In short, you are responsible for taking the initiative to take charge in your life and create the right environment to find that special someone. Or nothing will change. I would hate for you to be in the same place a year from now or even 5 years from now.

A: There's someone out there for everyone.

I help my clients truly understand who their ideal match is and help them create an action plan to attract that person.

Once you understand those things the odds are heavily in your favor.

And there are plenty of wonderful, available men and women out there. As a coach, I show you how to approach dating and shift your perspective from a negative one to a positive one. Your mindset dictates your success. This is true if you are 30 or if you are 75!

A: No, you are definitely not!

In fact, half of my clients are between the ages of 50, 60, and 70.

The Gen X and Boomers are the most active dating groups, especially online.

A: It depends.

Some people put the effort in and typically find someone relatively quickly.

Other people put dating at the bottom of their to-do list and let other things take up their time and energy. .

You will get out exactly what you put into this endeavor.

I don't see myself as a dating coach.

I am a Life and Relationship Coach.

I care and help you with your whole life and your relationship is a part of your whole life..When the other parts of your life are in better alignment, you meet better quality people. You are more open and available. This is the law of attraction.

I have the gift of visualization. I see my clients in healthy, committed relationships. I hold that vision and faith in them. My clients say I give them hope. I believe in them when they are ready to give up on themselves. I told one of my male clients that I will dance at his wedding. He was one of my longest clients. He didn't give up. And I did dance at his wedding with a big grin on my face.

A: I wouldn't suggest it. Not at first anyway. AndMatchmakers will charge you a small fortune.

It's important to do the inner work first. And know how to work with matchmakers. I teach my clients that when it makes sense.

They will also do ZERO work on your core values and finding a good match for you.

If you get a match, there's no guarantee it will be someone who's a good fit for you or you know how to take that relationship from the first meeting to the next one and then exclusivity and to engagement and marriage, if that's your goal.

Matchmakers are transactional. Coaches are transformational. .

Only one client in 17 years met through a matchmaker service. Over 80% of my successfully coupled clients met through an online dating site AFTER going through my Motivated to Marry Dating Secrets coaching program.

You do the math!

Work with me first. I'll help you decide if bringing in a matchmaker makes sense. And I'll make sure you don't get taken too.

It's not cheap. Nothing worthwhile in your life is cheap.

Then again it's not the exorbitant price a matchmaker will charge for half the service and an inferior result.

Your life experience, your happiness, and your love are the most valuable things you'll ever invest in. YOU are worth getting the proper support and knowledge from someone who CARES.

A: Of course.

Being shy is simply a part of who you are.

There's no point in being shy and trying to attract someone who wants to go out and party all the time.

I will help you find the ideal match for your personality type. That's my secret sauce. My clients have been from very shy to very outgoing. And each client gets a personally tailored dating plan based upon their personality, and strengths.

A: Of course.

Many of my clients are divorced.

You even have an advantage.

You are likely more aware of what you do want this time and especially what you don't want.

That will make it easier to find the person who's truly right for you.

A: No. Absolutely NOT!

You're great just the way you are. In fact, I don't want you to change. I am here to help you find the person who LOVES who you are.

You will find a match that's exactly right for who you are and what you want.

We will find the right partner who's perfect for you.

Do check out my success stories of my happy, successfully coupled clients.