How to Find Love Blog
How Resilient Are You In Your Quest to Find Your Mate?
I have been coaching for about 9 years now and what I notice is some people are really good at picking themselves up and getting back out there and others seem to get stuck in the “what went wrong” or “the would have, could haves” of their past relationship. Your ability to quickly move forward and get yourself dating again when you are looking to find a mate signifies how resilient you are. And you have the conviction that you will succeed and find the right person this time!
Who accompanies you to your single’s events to find love?
Spring is in the air and you may be looking to get out from the computer and seek out a singles groups’ activity. When you do show up to a singles events to meet eligible people for dating, that takes a lot of guts, especially if you are going by yourself. However, when you walk into the room, you are really not alone. You bring all your too familiar voices that are in your head with you. What are they telling you in your quest to find love?
5 Ways to Revamp your Online Dating Strategy in the New Year
Now is the best time of the year to get back online or revamp your online dating strategy. Statistics suggest that the time between Christmas and Valentine’s Day is when online activity increases dramatically. People are looking for love in the chilly winter months (especially in the upper half of the US) when they are stuck inside between these two holidays. That is why I have been recommending to my clients they get back online or consider revising their current online dating strategy ASAP!
Here are 5 ways you can update your online dating strategy and profile to yield you better results this year:
5 Simple Steps to Creating your 2013 Dating & Relationship Plan to Find Love
A New Year is looming and this is a great time to get take stock of what happened for you last year with your efforts to find love. Now is a great time to work on fine tuning your dating and relationship plan to create one that will yield your desired results.
First ask yourself these questions:
What is on your Gratitude List for 2012?
It’s a good exercise that I ask my clients to take stock on what they are grateful for during the past year. The positive psychology gurus say that those people who focus on what they have, instead of what they don’t have, are the happiest people. Here is my gratitude list.
Relationship Question: Do you consider a past relationship a failure or a lesson learned?
As the song goes, “Breaking up is hard to do!” And for many of us we loved some aspect of […]
How to Easily Meet People — Find a Singles Halloween Party!
One of my favorite holidays is Halloween. Not for the scary costumes and the macabre, but for the ability to be creative and interact with people in a fun and relaxed way. One of my tips for dating is to find a Halloween party
for singles this coming week!
First, you have to find a costume. For women, I recommend a cute and sexy costume that attracts and is playful. A cute red devil or a black cat is always a crowd pleaser. My dating tip for men is to find a masculine, hunky costume such as a super hero (you can show your muscles in your captain America or Spiderman costume) or a debonair Count Dracula with his dramatic cape.
Where on your to do list is finding a serious romantic relationship?
Life is busy and hectic. You have your spend a big chunk of your time at work, make time for […]
Are you Training for Winning at Love?
The Olympics is going on this week and it’s great fun to see such accomplished, dedicated men and women who […]