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When is it time to seek relationship advice from a dating coach?

By Coach Amy | February 3, 2013

I’ve been thinking about what keeps people from taking the steps to working with a professional and get the relationship advice that has proven results?

This is the list that I came up with:

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Should I be looking to Find Love Online or Face to Face?

By Coach Amy | January 20, 2013

I got an email from a colleague about her friend who was entering the dating world after divorce about where […]

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5 Ways to Revamp your Online Dating Strategy in the New Year

By Coach Amy | January 6, 2013

Now is the best time of the year to get back online or revamp your online dating strategy. Statistics suggest that the time between Christmas and Valentine’s Day is when online activity increases dramatically. People are looking for love in the chilly winter months (especially in the upper half of the US) when they are stuck inside between these two holidays. That is why I have been recommending to my clients they get back online or consider revising their current online dating strategy ASAP!

Here are 5 ways you can update your online dating strategy and profile to yield you better results this year:

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5 Simple Steps to Creating your 2013 Dating & Relationship Plan to Find Love

By Coach Amy | December 29, 2012

A New Year is looming and this is a great time to get take stock of what happened for you last year with your efforts to find love. Now is a great time to work on fine tuning your dating and relationship plan to create one that will yield your desired results.

First ask yourself these questions:

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What is on your Gratitude List for 2012?

By Coach Amy | December 27, 2012

It’s a good exercise that I ask my clients to take stock on what they are grateful for during the past year. The positive psychology gurus say that those people who focus on what they have, instead of what they don’t have, are the happiest people. Here is my gratitude list.

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Are You Chasing After The Wrong Person In Your Hopes Of Finding Love?

By Coach Amy | December 14, 2012

Let me see if you can relate to this. You meet someone you are very much attracted to. You try and get their attention. You may have even succeeded in going out with them (you did the asking) and yet, there is no reciprocal action. He or she is happy to accept your invitations. However, they are not calling you. It is not reciprocal.

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First Date Tips: Are Your Initial Connections Superficial or Deep?

By Coach Amy | December 7, 2012

Does this happen to you? You are at a party, or a single’s event, and you meet someone where you are attracted physically to them. You talk about fifteen minutes on very superficial subjects such as the latest new restaurant or the upset of the local football team.

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How to Find Love and be Happy as a Single during the Holidays

By Coach Amy | November 20, 2012

Many of my clients and singles that I talk to are apprehensive about the holidays. First, they would really like to find love and not have to go through the holidays as a solo. They are not really looking forward to celebrating the holidays with their family and enduring their family member’s inquisition about their love life. Besides, Aunt Jane has not been in the dating world for over 30 years!

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Relationship Question: Do you consider a past relationship a failure or a lesson learned?

By Coach Amy | November 7, 2012

As the song goes, “Breaking up is hard to do!” And for many of us we loved some aspect of […]

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