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5 Ways to Revamp your Online Dating Strategy in the New Year
Now is the best time of the year to get back online or revamp your online dating strategy. Statistics suggest that the time between Christmas and Valentine’s Day is when online activity increases dramatically. People are looking for love in the chilly winter months (especially in the upper half of the US) when they are stuck inside between these two holidays. That is why I have been recommending to my clients they get back online or consider revising their current online dating strategy ASAP!
Here are 5 ways you can update your online dating strategy and profile to yield you better results this year:
Read More5 Simple Steps to Creating your 2013 Dating & Relationship Plan to Find Love
A New Year is looming and this is a great time to get take stock of what happened for you last year with your efforts to find love. Now is a great time to work on fine tuning your dating and relationship plan to create one that will yield your desired results.
First ask yourself these questions:
Read MoreWhat is on your Gratitude List for 2012?
It’s a good exercise that I ask my clients to take stock on what they are grateful for during the past year. The positive psychology gurus say that those people who focus on what they have, instead of what they don’t have, are the happiest people. Here is my gratitude list.
Read MoreAre You Chasing After The Wrong Person In Your Hopes Of Finding Love?
Let me see if you can relate to this. You meet someone you are very much attracted to. You try and get their attention. You may have even succeeded in going out with them (you did the asking) and yet, there is no reciprocal action. He or she is happy to accept your invitations. However, they are not calling you. It is not reciprocal.
Read MoreFirst Date Tips: Are Your Initial Connections Superficial or Deep?
Does this happen to you? You are at a party, or a single’s event, and you meet someone where you are attracted physically to them. You talk about fifteen minutes on very superficial subjects such as the latest new restaurant or the upset of the local football team.
Read MoreHow to Find Love and be Happy as a Single during the Holidays
Many of my clients and singles that I talk to are apprehensive about the holidays. First, they would really like to find love and not have to go through the holidays as a solo. They are not really looking forward to celebrating the holidays with their family and enduring their family member’s inquisition about their love life. Besides, Aunt Jane has not been in the dating world for over 30 years!
Read MoreRelationship Question: Do you consider a past relationship a failure or a lesson learned?
As the song goes, “Breaking up is hard to do!” And for many of us we loved some aspect of […]
Read MoreWatch out for jumping to conclusions in dating relationships too soon!
It seems that in your early dating relationships, unlike our justice system, you consider someone guilty until proven innocent. I have seen many examples of this with my clients in situations where my client would jump to a negative conclusion in their dating relationships and almost missed out on a wonderful relationship.
Read MoreHow to Easily Meet People — Find a Singles Halloween Party!
One of my favorite holidays is Halloween. Not for the scary costumes and the macabre, but for the ability to be creative and interact with people in a fun and relaxed way. One of my tips for dating is to find a Halloween party
for singles this coming week!
First, you have to find a costume. For women, I recommend a cute and sexy costume that attracts and is playful. A cute red devil or a black cat is always a crowd pleaser. My dating tip for men is to find a masculine, hunky costume such as a super hero (you can show your muscles in your captain America or Spiderman costume) or a debonair Count Dracula with his dramatic cape.
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