So many of my clients come to me and that finding a life partner is down on their priority list. They do not make the time and literally the space for a person to come into their life.
I recommend you have an honest discussion with yourself. Take a good look at your priorities in life. Do you make time for online dating or going to singles events? Does your job or other commitments take a lot out of you? How do you do these relationship finding activities on top of other stuff? And, what can be eliminated in order to give you more time?
I know many what we would consider eligible single people who make no time for a relationship. If someone met you today, would you be able to take that relationship further?
I met my husband five years earlier than when we did finally connect. On that one date we had he perceived me for being TOO BUSY to date. He never asked me on a second date. A guy or gal has to see that you have time for a relationship. My retort now is, “You just needed to get on my calendar!”
However, how are you being perceived? Are you too busy for a relationship? Someone shouldn’t feel they have to be fit into a sliver of your life.
By the way, this is another one of my tips for dating: understand that people have different expectations about spending time together in a relationship. Some people need lots of time together and others don’t need that much for the relationship. You need to find someone who is on your same wavelength with regards to this. Relationship problems come up about this issue all the time.
I want you to look at your life and ask yourself, “How much time am I putting towards finding people to date and being available for dating?” Is it really a top priority for me?
Making time for dating and a relationship is one of my top tips for dating. You know the expression, “actions speak louder than words”. Are you really available for a relationship? Only you know the answer!