We come into this world with a predisposition to love and be loved. Why is finding true love so difficult as adults? Do we lose our understanding of love along the way? Do the experiences of life gradually jade us to the possibility of authentic love?
True love and finding a committed relationship that last the test of time is rare. It’s grounded in respect, compassion, forgiveness, acceptance, fidelity and safety. These are sustaining qualities of relationships; but rarely are we taught to look for them.
Most of us hard working people look forward to our vacation time during the summer. It’s a time for relaxation for some and a change of pace from normal routines for others. No matter what vacation option you choose, it’s important to be strategic about your time off from work.
Does this happen to you? You are at a party, or a single’s event, and you meet someone where you are attracted physically to them. You talk about fifteen minutes on very superficial subjects such as the latest new restaurant or the upset of the local football team.
Today is the ten year anniversary of 9-11. What can I tell you about that day, experience and the impact on my life? It showed me that I could depend on Alan in case of a major emergency. Isn’t that what you want from a marriage minded life partner?
A single friend of mine went back online to try internet dating again! She goes on has a couple of bad experiences and quits the online dating scene. She has mustered up her gumption to try again. I am sure she has spent hundreds of dollars when you add it up.