We come into this world with a predisposition to love and be loved. Why is finding true love so difficult as adults? Do we lose our understanding of love along the way? Do the experiences of life gradually jade us to the possibility of authentic love?
True love and finding a committed relationship that last the test of time is rare. It’s grounded in respect, compassion, forgiveness, acceptance, fidelity and safety. These are sustaining qualities of relationships; but rarely are we taught to look for them.
When I was 40 years old with no man in my life to love and adore me, I too was frustrated with dating men who were not serious about having a relationship that would lead to marriage and the family…
Putting yourself out there to meet marriage-minded singles can seem like a lot of work. Also, dating people you meet from online dating may be scary to you. Just remember, you are making all this effort because you believe you can find true love online and that before long you are going to meet that special someone. I’m here to tell you, yes, it does happen. Over two thirds of my successful clients have met their marriage partners through online dating. And yet, how can you tell when it is happening to you? What are the signs that he or she is The Right One?
Many of my clients and singles that I talk to are apprehensive about the holidays. First, they would really like to find love and not have to go through the holidays as a solo. They are not really looking forward to celebrating the holidays with their family and enduring their family member’s inquisition about their love life. Besides, Aunt Jane has not been in the dating world for over 30 years!