{"id":87,"date":"2009-07-11T16:59:19","date_gmt":"2009-07-11T20:59:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/motivatedtomarryblog.com\/?p=87"},"modified":"2009-07-11T16:59:19","modified_gmt":"2009-07-11T20:59:19","slug":"are-you-too-busy-for-a-relationship-part-i","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/are-you-too-busy-for-a-relationship-part-i\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You Too Busy for a Relationship?  Part I."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>All relationships take time!\u00a0 So in a romantic relationship especially requires time and attention.\u00a0 You know this.\u00a0 However, are you fully prepared to make the time you need to give to a relationship?<\/p>\n<p>Let me tell you about one of my client\u2019s complaints.\u00a0 \u201cThese women are too busy.\u00a0 It will be a month before we can find time for a date!\u201d\u00a0 Part of me is wondering if it\u2019s something about my client or if it is about many of us having a very busy life.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I remember back to when I was dating.\u00a0 I was a business owner with a clothing boutique and someone who likes to make plans in advance.\u00a0 So my now husband had to be a patient (and persistent) man-since he almost didn\u2019t ask me out for a second date because it would be a month later!\u00a0\u00a0 I can\u2019t remember what it was, but being a boutique owner, I had to go to New York for buying trips.\u00a0 Since I have family up there- I would combine it with a visit to my family.\u00a0\u00a0 My husband perceived me as being too busy for a relationship!\u00a0 Luckily he did ask me out again and it is what we call history!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I became aware of people who I called \u201cactivity-oriented\u201d people.\u00a0 They travel from activity to activity such as a bike ride to a concert to a swing dance.\u00a0 I was guilty of being that kind of person.\u00a0\u00a0 However, the difference was, I was willing to forgo these activities for a date or a chance to be with people I care about.\u00a0 That is what I call \u201crelationship focused\u201d.\u00a0 This is one of my biggest advice for dating- MAKE TIME!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Is it difficult to get a date with you?\u00a0 Do you over plan your weekends?\u00a0 Can you give your time and attention to being available to date?<\/p>\n<p>This inquiring relationship coach wants to know your answers to these relationship questions and any comments you may have on this subject.<\/p>\n<p>Your relationship coach,<\/p>\n<p>Amy<\/p>\n<p>P.S.\u00a0 Get your relationship questions answered!\u00a0 Join my fall 2009 tele-coaching group to help move your forward towards your goal of meeting a partner for a committed love relationship with the support of other singles, as well.\u00a0 For more information visit <a href=\"http:\/\/www.GetLoveRight.com\">www.GetLoveRight.com<\/a>.\u00a0 Save $300 by signing up by the end of August and get an additional one on one coaching session, as well!<\/p>\n<p>P.S.S.\u00a0 Get your relationship questions answered!\u00a0 Subscribe to my email notifications for helpful tips and advice for dating and relationships to move you forward towards your goal of meeting a partner for a committed serious relationship or to enhance your existing love relationships at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.heartmindconnection.com\">www.heartmindconnection.com<\/a> .\u00a0 Sign up for my next tele-gathering at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.heartmindconnection.com\/telegatherings.html\">www.heartmindconnection.com\/telegatherings.html<\/a> .\u00a0\u00a0 Also, you can download a free chapter of relationship advice for dating from my book, Get It Right This Time-How to Find and Keep Your Ideal Romantic Relationship at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.GetItRightThisTime.com\">www.GetItRightThisTime.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All relationships take time!\u00a0 So in a romantic relationship especially requires time and attention.\u00a0 You know this.\u00a0 However, are you fully prepared to make the time you need to give to a relationship? 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