{"id":8,"date":"2008-10-04T20:06:23","date_gmt":"2008-10-05T00:06:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/motivatedtomarryblog.com\/?p=8"},"modified":"2008-10-04T20:06:23","modified_gmt":"2008-10-05T00:06:23","slug":"dating-with-children-in-the-picture","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/dating-with-children-in-the-picture\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating with Children in the Picture"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Once you reach a certain age as a single, you may have children of your own or you may not have children, but perhaps you are meeting people to date who do.\u00a0 This definitely makes dating more challenging and possibly very rewarding at the same time.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>In today\u2019s dating advice for women and men, let\u2019s look at dating from each perspective as we explore these very prevalent <strong>relationship issues<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dating As a single parent\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Finding time to date can be an issue.\u00a0 Between work and your children, that leaves little time for personal time, let alone dating.\u00a0 That means you have to be very efficient with your time.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>It helps if you have a support system \u2013 either friends or family that would look after your kids while you go out.\u00a0\u00a0 Many single parents have their kids every other weekend, so they can plan adult activities for when they are solo.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>A lot depends on the age of the children.\u00a0 Younger kids are more pliable than older kids to accepting a new person in their parent\u2019s life.\u00a0\u00a0 Often times, relationship issues develop quickly as the children may struggle with acceptance of the new person in their parent\u2019s life.<\/p>\n<p>There is the perspective among single parents that they are less selfish than those people who don\u2019t have kids because they have to focus on others and not only themselves.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The comments that I have heard from my single parent clients are:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cThe person I am dating has to accept me and love the entire package- children and all.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201c I really need the person I am dating to be flexible and understanding because I can\u2019t always control things when it comes to my kids\u201d\u00a0 <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI wait awhile before I introduce my child to the person I am dating.\u00a0 I want to make sure that it\u2019s serious.\u00a0 I don\u2019t want my child to get attached and then have to deal with a loss if things don\u2019t work out.\u201d <\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The benefits that the single parent gets from dating are having an adult companion and someone who can offer emotional support.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Once you reach a certain age as a single, you may have children of your own or you may not have children, but perhaps you are meeting people to date who do.\u00a0 This definitely makes dating more challenging and possibly very rewarding at the same time.\u00a0 In today\u2019s dating advice for women and men, let\u2019s [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[33],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v18.3 (Yoast SEO v18.5.1) - 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