{"id":721,"date":"2013-04-26T08:30:21","date_gmt":"2013-04-26T12:30:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/?p=721"},"modified":"2013-04-26T23:54:06","modified_gmt":"2013-04-27T03:54:06","slug":"how-resilient-are-you-in-your-quest-to-find-your-mate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/how-resilient-are-you-in-your-quest-to-find-your-mate\/","title":{"rendered":"How Resilient Are You In Your Quest to Find Your Mate?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>I have been coaching for about 9 years now and what I notice is some people are really good at picking themselves up and getting back out there and others seem to get stuck in the \u201cwhat went wrong\u201d or \u201cthe would have, could haves\u201d of their past relationship.\u00a0\u00a0 Your ability to quickly move forward<\/strong> and get yourself dating again<\/strong> when you are looking to find a mate signifies how resilient you are.\u00a0 And you have the conviction that you will succeed and find the right person this time!<\/p>\n

Dating takes a thick skin.\u00a0 Think of yourself as a baseball player who comes up to bat at home base.\u00a0 Just because you strike out, doesn\u2019t mean that you give up.\u00a0 You learn from that experience.\u00a0 You would adjust your stance; try to learn more about the pitcher and what kinds of pitches he will be throwing to you.\u00a0 You start working the percentages and eventually, you hit a single and run to first base.\u00a0 And perhaps if you keep at it, you will get a home run!\u00a0 However, if you walk away from the ball game before the end, you will never know if you can hit that home run.\u00a0 The resilient person looks failure squarely in the face and continues to persevere<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Resilient people deal with rejection in a healthy way<\/strong>.\u00a0 They understand that not everyone is the right match and are able to move on quickly.\u00a0 I had a saying, \u201cYou are just not my cup of tea!\u201d\u00a0 You want to find someone who has the capacity to love and truly appreciates them.\u00a0 No one likes to be rejected and some of my clients find it really hard to be in a position to reject someone. However, in the long run, it\u2019s best to let someone go and find their better match.<\/p>\n

I was working with a 45 year old divorced business owner (and single parent with mostly grown children) who is getting back into the dating world after a recent bad break up.\u00a0 She had some trepidation about having to deal with rejection.\u00a0 I reminded her that, \u201cYou are a business owner.\u00a0 Don\u2019t you deal with rejection all the time?\u00a0 How is it when someone doesn\u2019t buy your service?\u201d\u00a0 She answered, \u201cEither the person is not ready to make the investment or it\u2019s not the right fit for this potential client.\u201d\u00a0 I challenged her to relate this mindset back to her dating.<\/p>\n

Resilient people forgive themselves for making poor choices<\/strong>.\u00a0 They understand that they did the best they could to make the right decision about a past long term relationship or marriage.\u00a0 They understand they are now older and wiser.\u00a0 I also tell myself, \u201cI won\u2019t make that mistake again.\u00a0 However, I most likely will make some new mistakes!\u201d It\u2019s about having kindness and compassion for yourself.<\/p>\n

Resilient people understand you can\u2019t change the past and you only have the present and the future ahead of you to make better choices for yourself<\/strong>.\u00a0 Once you learn the lessons from your past choices, then dwelling on your past relationship failures does not serve you. \u00a0Time is too precious. They are ready to take action that will move them forward to find a mate.<\/p>\n

Many of my clients who I would categorize as resilient see no choice other than to continue on their quest to find their mate.\u00a0 They do face disappointment and get frustrated like everyone. However, they do learn how to adjust their search in order to better their chances to connect with the right one.<\/strong>\u00a0 They change some aspect of their dating process or their life until they can find that special person with which to have a loving, fulfilling relationship that they truly desire.<\/p>\n

I have clients who have worked with me for over a year.\u00a0 They are improving their lives, continue to be interested in learning and also are creating opportunities to attract the right people into their lives.\u00a0 They have had relationships that were close and not quite the right ones.\u00a0 And yet, they continue to persist in their quest to find a mate.<\/p>\n

How can you know if you are resilient? <\/em><\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0Think about your past relationship history. When you break up with someone, how long does it take you to get back out there to start meeting someone new?\u00a0 Are you still pining away for some past boyfriend or girlfriend that clearly is not there for you?<\/p>\n

I suggest you look at the past relationship and write down all the qualities of this past partner that really worked for you.\u00a0 Then you write down another list of what did not work for you in the relationship or what makes that relationship an impossible fit.\u00a0 Are there differences that cannot be resolved?\u00a0 Are there internal or external roadblocks that have gotten in the way? Were their personal boundaries that were crossed that you can\u2019t tolerate (i.e. lying or cheating)?\u00a0 Was it a bad timing issue?\u00a0 Then, at the bottom of the page I suggest you write in bold letters, \u201cTime to move on!\u201d<\/p>\n

Keep that sheet handy for when you start looking backwards and not forwards to remind yourself why that relationship just can\u2019t be.\u00a0 And then, resolve to take some positive actions to get out there and meet some new people to date who are a better fit for you in the long run.\u00a0 \u00a0And last, as a resilient person, you have the belief that the right person is out there for you<\/strong> to meet that will be just who you were looking for.<\/p>\n

What is your experience with bouncing back after a break up?\u00a0 This curious coach would like to know! Please leave a comment below.<\/p>\n

Intentionally yours,<\/p>\n

Coach Amy<\/p>\n

PS.\u00a0 If you want to learn some of my strategies and tips for Motivated to Marry dating, go to www.motivatedtomarry.com<\/a> and grab my FREE 7 Day E-Course to find true love!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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