{"id":712,"date":"2013-04-04T23:34:02","date_gmt":"2013-04-05T03:34:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/?p=712"},"modified":"2013-04-04T23:34:02","modified_gmt":"2013-04-05T03:34:02","slug":"who-accompanies-you-to-your-singles-events-to-find-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/who-accompanies-you-to-your-singles-events-to-find-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Who accompanies you to your single\u2019s events to find love?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Woman-with-Question-Marks-Image.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-713\" title=\"woman with question marks over white background\" src=\"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Woman-with-Question-Marks-Image-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"226\" height=\"152\" srcset=\"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Woman-with-Question-Marks-Image-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Woman-with-Question-Marks-Image-1024x682.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 226px) 100vw, 226px\" \/><\/a>Spring is in the air and you may be looking to get out from the computer and seek out a singles groups\u2019 activity. When you do show up to a singles events to meet eligible people for dating, that takes a lot of guts, especially if you are going by yourself. However, when you walk into the room, you are really not alone. You bring all your too familiar voices that are in your head with you. What are they telling you in your quest to find love?<\/p>\n<p>How you show up determines how well you connect with people. Many times you may hear negative voices offering you some kind of warning, \u201cOnly losers would come to this event\u201d or \u201cThere are only the rejects here\u201d. Here you are bringing your <em>judgmental or snobby<\/em> gremlins with you.<\/p>\n<p>Or you may be bringing your <em>fearful<\/em> gremlins with you who may be telling you, \u201cBe careful, the guys here only want one thing!\u201d or,\u201dThe women are going to reject me, so why bother?\u201d. All these negative attitudes won\u2019t serve you to find love and will keep you from really participating and getting to know the people there.<\/p>\n<p>How about bringing the <em>confident<\/em> you to the event? This is the part of you who knows that you can engage in <em>friendly<\/em> conversation and start building relationships. I encourage my clients to <em>be open<\/em> and to <em>stay curious<\/em> about others. You are just developing connections \u2013 that\u2019s it. Then, over time, if there is interest, then you may decide to explore a possible relationship, if the interest appears to be mutual. Or perhaps a friendship can blossom.<\/p>\n<p>So who do you choose to bring with you the next time you venture out to a new group of try a single\u2019s event to find love? Who usually shows up and how do you plan on picking the right <em>wing<\/em> thoughts the next time you attend a new group or an event? This curious coach would like to know! Please leave your comments below.<\/p>\n<p>Intentionally yours,<\/p>\n<p>Coach Amy<\/p>\n<p>PS. If you want more dating tips to find love, go to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.MotivatedtoMarry.com\" target=\"_blank\">www.MotivatedtoMarry.com<\/a> and sign up for my free 7 Day e-course, <em>7 Steps to Finding True Love<\/em>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Spring is in the air and you may be looking to get out from the computer and seek out a singles groups\u2019 activity. When you do show up to a singles events to meet eligible people for dating, that takes a lot of guts, especially if you are going by yourself. However, when you walk into the room, you are really not alone. You bring all your too familiar voices that are in your head with you. 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