{"id":7,"date":"2008-10-01T20:22:00","date_gmt":"2008-10-02T00:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/motivatedtomarryblog.com\/?p=7"},"modified":"2008-10-01T20:22:00","modified_gmt":"2008-10-02T00:22:00","slug":"7-critical-steps-to-get-love-right-choose-wisely-who-you-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/7-critical-steps-to-get-love-right-choose-wisely-who-you-date\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Critical Steps to Get Love Right &#8211; Choose Wisely Who You Date"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The title should probably read- \u201cChoose Wisely Those You Get into a Relationship With!\u201d There is nothing wrong with dating. The whole purpose of dating is to evaluate someone to see if they are a good match for you. As the saying goes- \u201cYou have to date a lot of frogs before you find your prince\u201d! (Kissing may or may not happen!)\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>What if you could save yourself some time and agony and a lot of relationship issues by eliminating quickly who would not be a good match? Of course there are those who dismiss a potential partner too soon and never seem to find anyone suitable to date. It\u2019s a balancing act here.<\/p>\n<p>In today&#8217;s dating advice for women and men, I recommend using your values, your non-negotiables (must haves) and life goals to discern if someone would be a good person to date with a potential for a relationship. If you want to have children, then you need to find out if your candidate wants to have children as well. (Or more children if he is already a father). Does the person want the same end result from dating? Does your candidate want to find a marriage partner or are they happy just to date with no real direction to the relationship? Does this match up with your desires?<\/p>\n<p>If you desire to live in the country, then it\u2019s no good for you to date a city dweller. And what about chemistry?\u00a0 Granted, it has got to be there- so that is a prerequisite if you met someone face-to-face. However, if you are meeting people through online dating, it\u2019s important to screen your potential date first based upon your values, non-negotiables and life goals. Then, chemistry becomes the only wild card after the weeding out process, thereby decreasing your chances for having major relationship issues and increasing your opportunity for a successful match up.<\/p>\n<p>By following this dating process, you will be closer to getting love right this time! In my next article I will discuss another critical step &#8212; how expressing your expectations can help you get love right.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The title should probably read- \u201cChoose Wisely Those You Get into a Relationship With!\u201d There is nothing wrong with dating. The whole purpose of dating is to evaluate someone to see if they are a good match for you. 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