{"id":4519,"date":"2021-02-03T17:08:18","date_gmt":"2021-02-03T22:08:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/?p=4519"},"modified":"2021-02-03T17:08:18","modified_gmt":"2021-02-03T22:08:18","slug":"move-on-from-your-past-and-look-to-your-future","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/move-on-from-your-past-and-look-to-your-future\/","title":{"rendered":"Move On From Your Past And Look To Your Future!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Your past is your past. There&#8217;s not much you or anyone else, can do about it.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you feel you&#8217;ve made some poor choices in life partners and people you&#8217;ve dated.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you&#8217;re hanging on to some past emotional baggage.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><a href=\"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2020-01-04-Amy-note.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-3208 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/2020-01-04-Amy-note.jpg\" alt=\"Couple riding bikes and holding hands at sunset.\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I know I felt that way about my past marriage and some of the men I dated when I was single after my divorce.<\/p>\n<p>However, ruminating over the past will only keep you from your future life.<\/p>\n<p>And yes, understanding WHY you made those choices will help you.<\/p>\n<p>I help my clients move forward with an exercise called\u00a0<em><strong>Relationship Roadblocks.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>We look at your past relationships to figure out what worked and what didn&#8217;t. This will help you gain greater awareness about yourself and your choices. Then as we dig deeper, it will become crystal clear what you truly need in a relationship for it to go the distance.<\/p>\n<p>This exercise is not meant to have you dwell in the past. And it&#8217;s not therapy. It&#8217;s coaching! This is where you&#8217;ll see that you have a choice about how you think about your past relationships.<\/p>\n<p>My goal is to help you design a better blueprint for attracting a much better life partner this time around if you&#8217;re divorced or had a couple of &#8220;almost, not quite&#8221; relationships. Or we&#8217;ll make sure you attract a great person for where you are in life if you&#8217;re widowed.<\/p>\n<p>When you shift your &#8220;dating radar&#8221; you&#8217;ll see that you&#8217;ll be meeting better quality people for you. The kind of people who share your life vision, goals, and key relationship values.<\/p>\n<p>When my clients meet that right person, it just &#8220;clicks&#8221;! They recognize this person sooner than later and move quickly to an exclusive relationship in the matter of a couple of dates &#8211; not months or years!<\/p>\n<p>Just like Ray, widowed for 2 years in his late 50s, who was attracting women that didn&#8217;t have time for him. He was always trying to accommodate them and was disappointed. After coaching, he learned how to specifically communicate his needs and life vision to a potential partner.<\/p>\n<p>He met his life partner online and it was an immediate connection. They&#8217;re perfect for one another and after spending the holidays with one another&#8217;s families, they recently got engaged.<\/p>\n<p>Ray said that our coaching was instrumental to him meeting her. Ant that I kept encouraging him to keep going after a couple of disappointing &#8220;almost&#8221; relationships.<\/p>\n<h2>I&#8217;d love to help you meet that right person this New Year!<\/h2>\n<p>All you need to do is <a href=\"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/connect-with-coach-amy\/\">sign up here for your complimentary Meet You Mate Strategy session<\/a> so I can learn more bout you and share my proven step-by-step coaching process with you.<\/p>\n<p>I can show you how to meet your true love partner within 6 months (or less) as I&#8217;ve done for many of my clients who are fully committed to finding a true love partner.<\/p>\n<p>Wouldn&#8217;t it be great if you&#8217;d be my next client to find true love?<\/p>\n<p>Wishing you a love-filled New Year,<\/p>\n<p>Coach Amy<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your past is your past. There&#8217;s not much you or anyone else, can do about it. 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