{"id":4408,"date":"2020-10-13T10:31:32","date_gmt":"2020-10-13T14:31:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/?p=4408"},"modified":"2020-10-13T10:35:07","modified_gmt":"2020-10-13T14:35:07","slug":"the-best-dating-advice-youll-ever-get","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/the-best-dating-advice-youll-ever-get\/","title":{"rendered":"The Best Dating Advice You\u2019ll Ever Get"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Even the best dating advice in the world can\u2019t save you from the bad behavior that will occasionally show up as your date. What looks and sounds like a dream on screen can turn out to be something quite different when it\u2019s time to connect in real life.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just because you are among the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/do-you-know-if-your-partner-is-marriage-minded-or-not\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">marriage-minded people<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> looking for authenticity in a relationship doesn\u2019t mean the person in your favorite profile is. And just because you are doing a lot of work on yourself doesn\u2019t mean your swipe-right is doing the same.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><a href=\"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/2020-02-22-message-e1602599372424.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-3208 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/2020-02-22-message-e1602599372424.jpg\" alt=\"Woman on a date looking away from her date with a look of disgust.\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is, unfortunately, one of the built-in risks of any dating \u2014 and especially online dating \u2014 that some people end up being&#8230;well&#8230;jerks. They don\u2019t work on their relationship skills, and they don\u2019t think about their personal responsibility in communication or they may just lack the skills and abilities.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>So what\u2019s the best dating advice for dealing with people like this, especially when <a href=\"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/why-is-finding-true-love-so-difficult\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">finding true love<\/a> is your goal?<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I know it can be tough to hear, especially if you\u2019re someone who trusts easily and gives people the benefit of the doubt. You want to believe that your conversations are leading to something special. And you want to believe that this person you are opening up to and anticipating meeting has a genuine interest in knowing you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But the truth is that not everyone is as genuine as you. Not everyone is as prepared for a meaningful, committed relationship as you. <\/span><b>And eventually, you\u2019re going to have to develop a thick skin if you\u2019re going to enjoy and succeed in dating.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2>Consider one of my female clients who recently told me about a man who canceled a date on the grounds of him being sick. Or so that was his excuse.<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Interestingly, she had just added some new pictures to her profile. So you can imagine how she put two and two together&#8230;and how she felt.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Despite her suspicions that he wasn\u2019t being honest, she acted with integrity and responded in the right way. \u201cI\u2019m sorry to hear you\u2019re not feeling well. Let me know when a better time would be for us to get together.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, the guy took the easy way out (some would say the cowardly way out). He didn\u2019t write or call her back. And he didn\u2019t come up with a better time to meet.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He did, however, delete her from his profile line-up, signaling in a you-figure-it-out way that he was no longer interested in her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ouch.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, that kind of treatment stings. But, by following my best dating advice, she was able to turn the situation around. She handed his behavior back to him (figuratively speaking) and came to understand what it said about <\/span><i>him,<\/i> not her.<\/p>\n<p>What this man was telling my client through his behavior is that he can\u2019t be trusted. He doesn\u2019t keep his commitments \u2014 or at least he picks and chooses which ones he keeps. He lacks integrity and the essential quality of honesty, as evidenced by his lying to my client to get out of a date.<\/p>\n<p>He is also superficial and possibly didn\u2019t like her \u201clook.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnyone who responds to you with a lie is not worthy of you,\u201d I said to her. \u201cA man of upstanding value would say he isn\u2019t interested instead of lying.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I told her that she is very pretty and reminded her that the right man will adore and appreciate her.<\/p>\n<h2>The truth is, not everyone is everyone else\u2019s type. Men especially have \u201ca look\u201d they are seeking, and they will often forego knowing a person in order to get it.<\/h2>\n<p>That may sound shallow, but it\u2019s a reality in dating. And you can\u2019t take what feels like rejection personally, especially when a person doesn\u2019t even take the time to get to know you.<\/p>\n<p>The rejection isn\u2019t of you. The rejection is of himself. It\u2019s of that part of himself that isn\u2019t yet ready for all that a meaningful relationship requires.<\/p>\n<h2>So yes, dating takes a thick skin. It takes incredible self-awareness and self-confidence to be able to say, \u201cNext!\u201d and trust that there <i>will be<\/i> a \u201cnext.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>This is the best dating advice I give all my clients: Don\u2019t take apparent rejection personally. And say, \u201cNext!\u201d when it\u2019s time to move on.<\/p>\n<p>Knowing how long to stay and when to move on is a sign of wisdom. And when you become wise in your dating, you begin attracting equally wise, prepared, worthy candidates.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, the whole purpose of online dating is to get from online to face-to-face dating. So the incessant back-and-forth of texting and occasionally calling without planning an in-person meeting just sets up a holding pattern.<\/p>\n<p>And holding patterns make it easy for someone to get online and swipe left or right without investing time in any one person.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re busy. You\u2019re looking for true love. You\u2019re working on yourself and your own life so you can be a great spouse one day. You don\u2019t need another pen pal. You need authenticity, honesty, integrity, and an expression of genuine interest in who you are.<\/p>\n<p>There is a process I teach my clients for feeling safe and in control of their dating experience.<\/p>\n<p>Because of the dating advice offered in my book, my client saved herself from having to suffer through the behavior of another inconsiderate person.<\/p>\n<p>She learned not to take someone else\u2019s bad behavior as a reflection of her. And she learned the art of moving on.<\/p>\n<h2>How you approach dating really does matter to your dating success.<\/h2>\n<p>Do you need to develop a thicker skin for dating?<\/p>\n<p>Go to <a href=\"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/connect-with-coach-amy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">TalkWithCoachAmy.com<\/a>. We will schedule a time to explore how we can work together to help you achieve dating success.<\/p>\n<p>I look forward to hearing from you.<\/p>\n<p>Coach Amy<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>PS: Not sure that you\u2019re ready to meet the one? Take my quiz to find out.\u00a0 Go to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mtmquiz.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">www.mtmquiz.com<\/a> to learn more about your readiness for a serious, committed relationship.\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Even the best dating advice in the world can\u2019t save you from the bad behavior that will occasionally show up as your date. 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