{"id":40,"date":"2009-03-05T22:59:40","date_gmt":"2009-03-06T02:59:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/motivatedtomarryblog.com\/?p=40"},"modified":"2009-03-05T22:59:40","modified_gmt":"2009-03-06T02:59:40","slug":"motivated-to-marry-under-duress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/motivated-to-marry-under-duress\/","title":{"rendered":"Motivated to Marry Under Duress!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There is a big buzz going around concerning the latest Bachelor, Jason and his change of the heart. Women everywhere are outraged at Jason for his behavior. What do you expect? He\u2019s only human.<\/p>\n<p>Put yourself in his shoes- you meet 25 eligible women all vying for your attention. It\u2019s like he has his own harem! Now how many men do you know have that situation? This is TV and fantasy land. Through the internet you can meet 25 supposedly eligible women. However, the women are all able to date other men at the same time and not putting all their eggs in the proverbial basket! In real life, he would have to meet these women and have to sincerely woo them each. Perhaps given a choice, these women wouldn\u2019t want to really date a single father and not give him the time of day. Okay, he\u2019s not that bad looking! Most young women I know don\u2019t want the baggage.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>So in six weeks he is supposed to pick a wife. How realistic is that? Moreover he has this pressure to choose one because he is expected to do so. This is the premise of the show. He is under a microscope (or the cameras in TV speak) all along the way. Not such a typical situation in real life dating!<\/p>\n<p>In a real life situation, if a guy is dating two women, he would most likely keep dating them until he knew for sure that a particular one was &#8220;the one&#8221;. Eventually he\u2019d have to choose because one or both women would request he do so or move on to find someone who would commit to her.<\/p>\n<p>So after the show, when he got some distance from all the pressure and time to think, he had buyer\u2019s remorse. In the end he really felt he had chose the wrong woman, after all.<\/p>\n<p>So Jason regretted his original choice of a mate. The only mistake he made was in proposing to Melissa in the first place. You know the show must go on! Then to break up with her on national TV was very cruel. Then again, it is TV and drama is good for ratings!<\/p>\n<p>Now remind me, why do we care? Back to our own lives!<\/p>\n<p>What is your opinion?<\/p>\n<p>This inquiring relationship coach wants to know your answers to these questions and any comments you may have on this subject.<\/p>\n<p>Your relationship coach,<\/p>\n<p>Amy<\/p>\n<p>P.S. Get your relationship questions answered! Subscribe to my ezine for helpful dating and relationship advice and tips to move you forward towards your goal of meeting a partner for a committed serious relationship or to enhance your existing love relationships at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.heartmindconnection.com\/\"><u><font color=\"#0000ff\">www.heartmindconnection.com<\/font><\/u><\/a> . Sign up for my next tele-gathering there. Also, you can download a free chapter of relationship advice from my book, <em>Get It Right This Time-How to Find and Keep Your Ideal Romantic Relationship<\/em> at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.getitrightthistime.com\/\"><u><font color=\"#0000ff\">www.GetItRightThisTime.com<\/font><\/u><\/a>. <strong \/><\/p>\n<p>Tags: Love relationship, relationship advice, relationship coach, serious relationship, relationship questions.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\" \/><font face=\"Arial\" size=\"2\"><\/p>\n<p \/><\/font><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is a big buzz going around concerning the latest Bachelor, Jason and his change of the heart. Women everywhere are outraged at Jason for his behavior. What do you expect? He\u2019s only human. Put yourself in his shoes- you meet 25 eligible women all vying for your attention. 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