{"id":4,"date":"2008-09-29T19:44:07","date_gmt":"2008-09-29T23:44:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/motivatedtomarryblog.com\/?p=4"},"modified":"2011-10-20T09:18:54","modified_gmt":"2011-10-20T13:18:54","slug":"5-signs-that-you-have-met-the-right-one","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/motivatedtomarry.com\/stage\/5-signs-that-you-have-met-the-right-one\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Signs That You Have Met the &#8220;Right One&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Today\u2019s dating tips for men and women are designed to help you know when you have found the right Motivated to Marry\u2122 partner.\u00a0 Let\u2019s say that Nancy is 38 and has been dating Barry for a year now and is wondering if he is the one for her.\u00a0 She would like to be married with a family and is starting to think about if she should break up with Barry.\u00a0 My advice is that if she isn\u2019t sure, then it is not right.\u00a0 This is why.\u00a0 Of the couples I have interviewed, they expressed having these signs about their mates they married:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>There is a feeling of \u201chome\u201d<\/strong><br \/>\nThere is a sense of comfort and a familiarity.\u00a0 The word recognition comes up as knowing that this person is the one.\u00a0 It\u2019s like you have known the person your whole life.\u00a0 It\u2019s so easy to talk to one another.<\/li>\n<li><strong>There is a Flow<\/strong><br \/>\nThe relationship has ease.\u00a0 The couples finish each other\u2019s sentences.\u00a0 Time just flies when you are with the right person.\u00a0 Yes, relationships take work, but this is joyous work.\u00a0 The concept of flow is true for both in and out of the bedroom!<\/li>\n<li><strong>You are able to laugh together and have fun<\/strong><br \/>\nYou enjoy being with each other and get each other\u2019s jokes.\u00a0 You may not have exactly the same humor, but you at least crack a smile.\u00a0 My husband and I both blew straw wrappings at each other like kids!\u00a0 It\u2019s okay to be silly with this person.\u00a0 The couple has fun doing activities together and shares similar interests.<\/li>\n<li><strong>You are each other\u2019s best friend<\/strong><br \/>\nThere is a sense of trust and loyalty.\u00a0 You know your partner will be there for you through thick and thin and can be counted on.\u00a0\u00a0 You want to share everything with this person- the good and the bad stuff. You are always excited to see that person walk in the door.<\/li>\n<li><strong>You both act in a \u201cwe\u201d way rather than a \u201cme\u201d way<\/strong><br \/>\nThe couple makes decisions that benefit the relationship instead of only the individual.\u00a0 You share life goals and work together towards them.\u00a0 You care about how your actions affect the other.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 When all these signs are in place, then it is natural to want to take the next step towards marriage.\u00a0 The only relationship issues that would stop the progress would be one or both listening to their internal fears and various external circumstances beyond their control like a sick parent or their work travel.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0When Nancy realized that several of these signs were missing in her current relationship, she became clear that there were critical relationship issues between her and Barry. Only then did she decide to move on and find someone better suited to her rather than hoping that things would change in her present situation.\u00a0\u00a0 This wasn\u2019t the easy path, but she was determined not to settle for anything less.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 As always, my advice is to seek the advice of a relationship coach if you continue to have hesitation or other relationship questions.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Wishing you the best in your search for the right one!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Coach Amy<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Today\u2019s dating tips for men and women are designed to help you know when you have found the right Motivated to Marry\u2122 partner.\u00a0 Let\u2019s say that Nancy is 38 and has been dating Barry for a year now and is wondering if he is the one for her.\u00a0 She would like to be married [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v18.3 (Yoast SEO v18.5.1) - 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