So many of my clients come to me and that finding a life partner is down on their priority list.\u00a0 They do not make the time and literally the space for a person to come into their life.<\/p>\n
I recommend you have an honest discussion with yourself.\u00a0 Take a good look at your priorities in life.\u00a0 Do you make time for online dating or going to singles events?\u00a0 Does your job or other commitments take a lot out of you?\u00a0\u00a0 How do you do these relationship finding activities on top of other stuff?\u00a0 And, what can be eliminated in order to give you more time?<\/p>\n
I know many what we would consider eligible single people who make no time for a relationship.\u00a0\u00a0 If someone met you today, would you be able to take that relationship further?<\/p>\n
I met my husband five years earlier than when we did finally connect.\u00a0 On that one date we had he perceived me for being TOO BUSY to date.\u00a0 He never asked me on a second date.\u00a0 A guy or gal has to see that you have time for a relationship.\u00a0\u00a0 My retort now is, \u201cYou just needed to get on my calendar!\u201d<\/p>\n
However, how are you being perceived?\u00a0 Are you too busy for a relationship?\u00a0 Someone shouldn\u2019t feel they have to be fit into a sliver of your life.<\/p>\n
By the way, this is another one of my tips for dating: understand that people have different expectations about spending time together in a relationship.\u00a0 Some people need lots of time together and others don\u2019t need that much for the relationship.\u00a0 You need to find someone who is on your same wavelength with regards to this.\u00a0 Relationships problems come up about this issue all the time.<\/p>\n
I want you to look at your life and ask yourself, \u201cHow much time am I putting towards this finding people to date and being available for dating?\u201d\u00a0 Is it really a top priority for me?<\/p>\n
Making time for dating and a relationship is one of my top tips for dating.
\nYou know the expression, \u201cactions speak louder than words\u201d.\u00a0 Are you really available for a relationship?\u00a0 Only you know the answer!<\/p>\n
Intentionally yours,<\/p>\n
Coach Amy<\/p>\n