My Get Love Right tele-coaching group came to an end this week. It is always sad because you get to know and love a group of people who really show up and do the work for ten plus weeks. They are like young birds that have gotten wings and now are able to fly on their own. (This is a metaphor for venturing out into the dating world.)
They leave more grounded in themselves, with a clear sense of what will work for them and what will not in terms of their dating to find a serious relationship. The group was four women ranging from 35 to 55 years old. Three have never married and one was divorced. All are courageous and smart women. They
took a risk and decided to try something different to change the outcome of their dating.
So what did they come away with? As each shared what they have gained from the group, it became apparent that I had taught them well. They got it. Sally said, “I am not going to date haphazardly anymore. I used to date someone and then find out that their life goals were different than mine. Now I will find out their life goals sooner rather than later!”
Lisa chimed in, “I really have a sense of my values and that my partner would need to share my main core relationship values.” Jane added, “I will pay attention to my must haves and use that as a screening tool when looking for a love relationship.”
“Yes, I won’t allow myself to get swept away by a cute guy who doesn’t share these important things with me”, shared Tina. This was all music to my ears!
What choices are you making for yourself when you are out in the dating world? How can you be more intentional about who you go out on a date with? What will you use to screen inappropriate people?
This inquiring relationship coach wants to know your answers to these questions and any comments you may have on this subject.
Your relationship coach,
Amy
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