7 Ways that Falling in Love Too Quickly Can Adversely Impact Your Chance for Forever Love

Are you guilty of falling in love too quickly? And if so, what is the impact with someone you have started to date?

There are some people who really desire to be in relationship. I see this with both my men and women clients. They love to fall in love! Here are 7 ways that falling in love too quickly can adversely impact your dating for a lasting relationship:

1. We hear about love at first sight- and yet it’s based on a look, not really knowing a person and if they are a good fit for you.
2. Falling in love too quickly makes you appear desperate to your date. You may even scare them away because you appear too needy before you really know a person!
3. You haven’t taken the time to see if your life goals, values and must haves line up.
4. Sometimes you dismiss one or two things you see in this person that can end up being deal breakers down the road. For instance, one of my boyfriends bad mouthed all his past girlfriends. Guess what, I became one of those ex’s he bad mouthed!
5. You miss some critical stuff that will haunt you. For instance, you start to see your girlfriend’s overbearing family members are always influencing her decisions!
6. Most people appreciate that you are taking your time to get to know them and want to make sure it’s right before pledging never ending love. Sometimes when someone seems too fall in love too soon, they are may be trying to con you for something like money or a green card!
7. The danger is if you are intimate too soon, and the emotional and intellectual part of your relationship has not had time to develop enough to establish real trust and safety. Then you may place unreasonable expectations of the relationship way too early in the relationship. Or some people may get triggered and run away from the relationship.
Ultimately, you may be setting yourself up for a big disappointment. My recommendation is to take a relationship one step at a time. The right relationship moves forward at the right pace.
What is your opinion on falling in love too quickly? What has been your experience? This curious coach would like to know!

Intentionally yours,

Coach Amy

P.S. The Motivated to Marry Dating Secrets coaching program gives you the step by step plan to make sure you are pacing your relationship just right so you give yourself the best chance of moving the right relationship forward towards marriage. To get a taste of this results oriented, proven program, grab my “7 Steps to Finding Your True Love Partner” online e-course (See upper right hand side). It only takes 2 minutes a day to read and you will find it will shift the way you look at dating and relationships.