Are You Dating With Intention Or Superficially?

Before and after images of a man who learned to date with intention.

“Lookin’ for love in all the wrong places, lookin’ for love in too many faces….” Johnny Lee’s country classic spelled out the frustration of searching for true love…and not finding it. Unless you’re dating with intention, the process can seem like a never-ending lesson in futility. I frequently receive emails from other professionals in my […]

Who And What Are You Attracting? Look At What You Put Out There.

Group photo of the Bike & Brunch group I belonged to when I was dating.

In a recent conversation with a prospective client, I mentioned my belief that “you attract what you put out there.” She asked me to clarify “put out there.” And that question got me thinking. I’ve had this belief for so long that I hadn’t picked it apart until now. I responded to her, “It’s the […]

13 Fun Low-Budget Date Ideas

Couple going for a hike as a low-budget date.

Dating can be expensive. And I’m not talking about just the cost of the events. So, it makes sense that you might be a little money-conscious. And, you don’t want to appear broke or stingy, but you desperately need low-budget date ideas. Singles who are out searching for and finding true love may be convinced […]

The Pros and Cons Of Meetup Dating

Group having a meal together and exploring the pros and cons of meetup dating.

Modern-day dating can seem more like job-hunting in a competitive market than simply falling into love by chance. You have to work at it, put yourself out there, and diversify your approach. It takes effort. Online dating has finally taken over as the top way couples are meeting — outperforming the “family and friends” plan. […]