Things That Change For Men Dating Over 40

Over 40 man giving beautiful red roses to his date.

Hitting the big 4-0 comes with a predictable ensemble of life changes — some gratifying, some more like rude awakenings. If you’ve crossed that threshold and are still single, you know that dating over 40 fits that description. While some aspects of finding true love have no gender preference, others do show some preferential treatment. […]

Who And What Are You Attracting? Look At What You Put Out There.

Group photo of the Bike & Brunch group I belonged to when I was dating.

In a recent conversation with a prospective client, I mentioned my belief that “you attract what you put out there.” She asked me to clarify “put out there.” And that question got me thinking. I’ve had this belief for so long that I hadn’t picked it apart until now. I responded to her, “It’s the […]

Over 40: How Long To Date Before Marriage?

Over 40 couple with their dog and wondering how long to date before marriage.

For singles who are motivated to marry, dating isn’t a pastime. It takes on a strategy and focus on your goals. Granted, you’re not trying to rush down the aisle or marry the first good-enough prospect that comes along. But you’re also not willing to waste your time in a relationship that’s not going anywhere. […]

Can You Find True Love After 40? Absolutely, If You Do This

A couple happily dancing in a field after finding true love after 40.

Forty seems to be the new thirty! Couples often start families later, and people don’t always lock in their careers until they’ve spent years in several jobs. But can you find true love after 40? Or is it too late to have the kind of love you dreamed of in your youth? The answer is […]