Are the Holidays Bah Humbug [ :( ] or Happy [ :) ] for you?

sad-lady-at-the-barIt’s a known fact, how you approach life will impact your experiences and how people experience you. The holidays present new opportunities to meet new people, especially friends of your close friends. It is possible that you can meet your soulmate during the holidays, as well. We are naturally drawn to positive, fun and affirming people.

How do you you think people view you?

Are you warm, approachable, happy, cheerful and positive most of the time?

Or are you a worrier, negative, sad, angry and critical?

We all have stresses in our lives even though we may not show it.

And other times, we wear our hearts on our sleeves, showing our true selves. Read more ›

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What’s your plan for the January Dating Blitz 2017?

heart-on-a-computer-image-cIt’s the first half of November. Hasn’t time flown by so quickly this year? Now that the election is over and we can finally get back to our lives again, what’s your dating wish for yourself for the coming year?

Sure, you could meet your soulmate at a fall event or even a holiday party, however, I wouldn’t count on it. Your chances are very slim here.

Over 75% of my successfully coupled clients have met their partners online. They implemented the Motivated to Marry Dating Secrets system and applied it to their online dating. Will you be ready for the major opportunity of the major increase (over 25%) of singles going online in January to meet your soulmate?

You may have heard the story of one of my 40 something clients, Nancy.
In November she had just broken up with a man she was dating for 6 months and thought he could be the one. As it turned out, her ex boyfriend could not give her the relationship she desired and be the kind of man she needed. And she had to come to terms with that and move on quickly since time was of the essence. You see, Nancy was really motivated and wanted to get married and have a family. Read more ›

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024 What’s really stopping you from receiving love and being Motivated to Marry? Bobbi Palmer

palmer_bobbi_Bobbi Palmer is an internationally recognized dating and relationship authority for women over 40 and founder of Date Like a Grownup. With her expert guidance, smart, independent woman from all over the world are now sharing the intimacy, passion and partnership of a grownup relationship with their special man.

Fed up with being single and determined to succeed in her romantic life (like she had in the rest of her life), Bobbi finally figured out ‘the love thing’ and became a first time bride at age 47. Now joyfully married, she walks her talk every day as she helps women do what she did: add the joy of loving and being loved to their already good life.

With Bobbi as your guide, you receive the compassion of a woman who has firsthand experience of how you feel being single at this time of life, along with the skill of a highly successful adult educator. As she says: “There is nothing wrong with you. There are just some things you don’t yet know.”

Bobbi has been featured on The Today Show, Huffington Post, NPR, Women’s World magazine,, AARP,, and numerous other TV, radio and print outlets. Read more ›

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After Labor Day, how will you be getting your dating back on track?

couple-walking-on-railroad-tracks-imageIt’s September again and days are getting shorter, the air is getting crisper, and the school buses are coming through the neighborhood.  Fall will soon be here.

It’s a time we start thinking about the year behind us and the few months ahead.  This is the last quarter of 2016.  Where are you with your dating efforts?

Before we know it, the end of the year holidays and New Year will be upon us.

Did you promise yourself in January that 2016 would be the year you would find your true love partner? 

And now that the summer is over, do you need a jumpstart to finding ways to meet new people for dating and connecting with that right person? Read more ›

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023 How to Get into Action and Meet Motivated to Marry Prospects for Dating! Nancy Slotnick

Nancy Slotnick

Nancy Slotnick has been in the dating business for over 15 years. She founded the original dating-cafe, Drip, that was on the UWS of Manhattan and set up thousands of dates before online dating existed. She is a dating expert and Love Coach where she coaches women on how to find love and has a coaching program called the Most Eligible.

Her most recent venture is a content site and dating app called Matchmaker Cafe.  The Matchmaker Café app is online dating for the social networking generation, automating the process and setting up real dates in the real world.  Nancy has also set up a pop-up café in public space that helps people find love in New York City.

Nancy is responsible for hundreds of marriages. Her book, Turn Your Cablight On: Get Your Dream Man in 6 Months or Less, was published in hardcover by Penguin and released in 2006.

Nancy Slotnick has been featured on Oprah, the Today Show, and numerous others as a relationship expert. She has a B.A. from Harvard in Psychological Anthropology …and is a renowned Life Coach, specializing in dating, love and marriage issues. She has appeared on reality shows and has produced, appeared in, and cast countless dating news segments for national and local television. Read more ›

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