After Labor Day, how will you be getting your dating back on track?

couple-walking-on-railroad-tracks-imageIt’s September again and days are getting shorter, the air is getting crisper, and the school buses are coming through the neighborhood.  Fall will soon be here.

It’s a time we start thinking about the year behind us and the few months ahead.  This is the last quarter of 2016.  Where are you with your dating efforts?

Before we know it, the end of the year holidays and New Year will be upon us.

Did you promise yourself in January that 2016 would be the year you would find your true love partner? 

And now that the summer is over, do you need a jumpstart to finding ways to meet new people for dating and connecting with that right person?

Here are a couple of questions to ask yourself as you start considering HOW you are going to be getting out to meet people who are dating for a serious, lasting relationship, (just like you are):

  1. WHERE you can go to connect with people who share your core relationship values?
  2. Will you be revising your online profile?  Or will you consider to try another site at this time?  HOW can you infuse your core relationship values into your online dating profile in order to attract someone with whom you will connect with?
  3. WHAT can you do to make dating a higher priority for you and to make for time for dating activities?  WHAT do you need to do to become more date available?
  4. WHAT roadblocks (both internal and external) have been getting in your way and stopping you from finding that special person?
  5. WHO can help you expand your search and/or support your efforts to meet someone with whom you see potential?

When you answer these questions, you will get a greater sense of what it will take for you right now to move forward in your search for true love.

There is a process to dating like anything else in life you want to achieve, such as finding a new job or career, or losing 20 pounds.

And when my clients learn my values based process, it shifts WHO they are looking for and HOW they search for love.

This is not that hard!  The only hard part is getting past what’s holding you back.   And I know you have the courage to do this.

And most of my clients have been at this dating stuff for a while now.  I refine their process.

Just like my 40 year old client Robin who was dating the wrong guys and in a toxic job. Through our coaching she decided to make some changes in her life that made her more open to dating guys like her husband.  She met her husband online within a couple of months of us coaching together.  She was in a better place in her life and was able to recognize that he was the right kind of guy for her.  Before that, she was passing all the good guys by!

Fall is the perfect time to put some effort in this part of your life. You will find many single and searching men and women are in the same place you are and putting their efforts into getting back out there in the hopes of finding their mate.

You have everything you need inside you to do this.

So, what is one thing you can do tonight to get started in the right direction? 

Intentionally yours,

Coach Amy

P.S. If you are ready to do what it takes to find true love, and you would like my help with this, then let’s talk!

Go to to get started with this process today!

I have guided many through my proven proprietary process to find their mates.

I’d love the chance to get to know you better and to help you find that special person to build a life with together.  Don’t forget to ask me about my fall coaching program special! 


Do you live in the DC area? Don’t miss my Live Workshop:

7 Steps to Creating an Energizing Dating Plan

Let’s jumpstart your dating efforts together. Come learn the RIGHT WAY to date for a serious relationship! You will leave this workshop energized and excited to get back out there dating again with greater confidence and ease.

Saturday, September 24th at 2 pm to 5 pm. Rockville, MD location.

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I look forward to seeing you! — Coach Amy


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023 How to Get into Action and Meet Motivated to Marry Prospects for Dating! Nancy Slotnick

Nancy Slotnick

Nancy Slotnick has been in the dating business for over 15 years. She founded the original dating-cafe, Drip, that was on the UWS of Manhattan and set up thousands of dates before online dating existed. She is a dating expert and Love Coach where she coaches women on how to find love and has a coaching program called the Most Eligible.

Her most recent venture is a content site and dating app called Matchmaker Cafe.  The Matchmaker Café app is online dating for the social networking generation, automating the process and setting up real dates in the real world.  Nancy has also set up a pop-up café in public space that helps people find love in New York City.

Nancy is responsible for hundreds of marriages. Her book, Turn Your Cablight On: Get Your Dream Man in 6 Months or Less, was published in hardcover by Penguin and released in 2006.

Nancy Slotnick has been featured on Oprah, the Today Show, and numerous others as a relationship expert. She has a B.A. from Harvard in Psychological Anthropology …and is a renowned Life Coach, specializing in dating, love and marriage issues. She has appeared on reality shows and has produced, appeared in, and cast countless dating news segments for national and local television.


  • How does someone know if they are ready to find “the one”?
  • How does Nancy recommend taking action on finding “the one”?
  • How often should someone date if they are dating with a purpose?
  • Where should someone go if they are looking to meet someone special?
  • Is online dating a good answer for how to find a relationship?
  • What is Nancy’s advice for writing an online dating profile?
  • What are some of her tips for a first date?


Video seminar about making the search for love a priority.

Nancy Slotnick believes that dating should be fun, but for a lot of people it is overwhelming and scary.  In this free gift video, Nancy will save you on time and heartache by teaching you how to get more dates and to get the dates you want.  She will address how to “Make Love a Priority” and give you time-tested tips for getting started in the quest for love.

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022 Understanding Relationship Compatibility and Why this is Critical for Dating Eileen Head

Eileen Head

Eileen HeadEileen Head is a Personality & Relationship Expert, International Bestselling Author of “Why Can’t I Figure Us Out?”, Coach, Speaker, and Workshop facilitator. Through her coaching and workshops, she supports people to “figure themselves out” to become their Best Self. Then she empowers them through powerful tools such as the Enneagram (any-a-gram) Personalities to find their Relationship Answers.

Eileen is passionate about assisting others to find their relationship answers through recognizing the behaviors and patterns of the personalities. You will discover your natural talents, gifts and value, how to get your fundamental personality needs met and your relationship loving style. This information is crucial to respond to your partner’s loving style and when dating to attract a mate that will be compatible with you. When you specifically know how you feel loved and appreciated…and what you need…you can then communicate it, and empower yourself to heal the past and find the path to your Purpose and Passion.


  1. So what exactly is The Enneagram (pronounced any-a-gram) and why is it important for understanding relationship compatibility?
  2. What does compatibility mean? What do people who are dating need to understand about compatibility
  3. How to evaluate someone as a good partner?
  4. Discover the different personality types and how to identify them.
  5. How Eileen use personalities to recognize the attractive styles of the 9 personalities.

Free Gift:           

Singles Guide to Personality Matching.
Discover who is most compatible with you and why. What singles want to knowUnderstanding the patterns, behaviors and motivations of the 9 Enneagram (any-a-gram) personality types.


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021 How to Ignite Attraction and Chemistry as a Motivated to Marry Dater Joanna Kennedy

Joanna-Kennedy-MotivatedtoMarryJoanna Kennedy is the founder and director of the Center for Happiness, Love and Pleasure.  As a Passion and Intimacy expert, Joanna helps singles and couples who’ve struggled with love and sex put the healthy, hot and happy back into dating and relating. There are too many nice guys who “finish last”… too many successful women who can’t seem to find a great man… and way too many people who find themselves in the friend-zone! Joanna helps you get past those challenges so you can find and build a relationship where you fall in love over and over again, where the sex stays hot and the love runs deep.

Joanna is an Advanced Certified Tantra Educator and a Visionary Leadership Coach.   You can also see her on America’s Got Talent as teaching kissing!


  1. How does Joanna define Chemistry?
  2. How does Chemistry affect attracting a mate?
  3. What are Joanna’s 3 tips for igniting attraction and chemistry in a person of interest?
  4. How are romantic relationships impacted by the “masculine” business world?
  5. Are men and women really that different when it comes to attracting the opposite sex?

Free Gift – Passionate Love Jumpstart Kit

Whether you’re single or you’ve been in a relationship for years, find out what it takes for love to last and passion to stay hot! Includes: The Passionate Lover & Relationship System, the 8 Secrets to Lasting Love Tip Sheet, 7 Practices for Great Sex Article, and 12 Ancient Secrets to tantric living.

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My #1 Top Dating Mistake for Why You Aren’t Finding your Spouse!

pushing_40_ecover_flat_SSFor over 12 years I have been helping singles find their spouses and have observed many dating mistakes. This tragic dating mistake results in you wasting your precious time because you may stay in the wrong relationship way too long and cut out good prospects, as well, so you miss out on true love.

As I see it, most people date with the wrong standard of judgment, in other words, their Dating Radar is off. Sure, you have to be attracted to someone, but being fun on a date, doesn’t guarantee a good life partner for you. Read more ›

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