I have been coaching for about 9 years now and what I notice is some people are really good at picking themselves up and getting back out there and others seem to get stuck in the “what went wrong” or “the would have, could haves” of their past relationship. Your ability to quickly move forward and get yourself dating again when you are looking to find a mate signifies how resilient you are. And you have the conviction that you will succeed and find the right person this time! … Continue Reading
Who accompanies you to your single’s events to find love?
Spring is in the air and you may be looking to get out from the computer and seek out a singles groups’ activity. When you do show up to a singles events to meet eligible people for dating, that takes a lot of guts, especially if you are going by yourself. However, when you walk into the room, you are really not alone. You bring all your too familiar voices that are in your head with you. What are they telling you in your quest to find love?… Continue Reading
Do you feel you are a Sleeping Beauty who just woke up at 40 still looking to find love?
A recent client expressed that she wondered how she got to be 40 and is still single. Time has slipped away with other things taking priority in her life rather than to focus to find love. Here you are – 40 with no significant relationship or family. It’s kind of like you are a sleeping beauty. You wake up one day after a long deep sleep and wonder where your prince is! I know how difficult that can be.… Continue Reading
Do you know if your partner is marriage minded or not?
Putting yourself out there to meet marriage-minded singles can seem like a lot of work. Also, dating people you meet from online dating may be scary to you. Just remember, you are making all this effort because you believe you can find true love online and that before long you are going to meet that special someone. I’m here to tell you, yes, it does happen. Over two thirds of my successful clients have met their marriage partners through online dating. And yet, how can you tell when it is happening to you? What are the signs that he or she is The Right One?… Continue Reading
A Valentine’s Day Dilemma Dating Advice: Help! I am dating several guys at once. Who do I choose?
If you are single and dating several people at once, Valentine’s Day can be fraught with fear of making the wrong move and losing a great opportunity to connect with the right mate.… Continue Reading
When is it time to seek relationship advice from a dating coach?
I’ve been thinking about what keeps people from taking the steps to working with a professional and get the relationship advice that has proven results?
This is the list that I came up with:… Continue Reading
Should I be looking to Find Love Online or Face to Face?
I got an email from a colleague about her friend who was entering the dating world after divorce about where her client should be looking to meet single men in her quest to find love. I told my friend that it’s not a one size fits all formula. Much depends on the individual when I… Continue Reading
The Do’s and Don’ts of Traveling with a Singles’ Group
Winter is here and you may have fantasies around being in a warm, tropic island, sipping pina coladas and relaxing that may be calling out to you. Or, how about an active ski vacation where you are skiing at a top ski resort with great apre ski activities? Or maybe you yearn for a more exotic vacation where you cruise along the Pacific Ocean to Thailand, Singapore and Vietnam? As a single person, I recommend you consider traveling with a singles’ group so you can meet great people while having the vacation of your dreams.
However, these are some things to think about and to consider when traveling with a singles’ group.… Continue Reading
5 Ways to Revamp your Online Dating Strategy in the New Year
Now is the best time of the year to get back online or revamp your online dating strategy. Statistics suggest that the time between Christmas and Valentine’s Day is when online activity increases dramatically. People are looking for love in the chilly winter months (especially in the upper half of the US) when they are stuck inside between these two holidays. That is why I have been recommending to my clients they get back online or consider revising their current online dating strategy ASAP!
Here are 5 ways you can update your online dating strategy and profile to yield you better results this year:… Continue Reading
5 Simple Steps to Creating your 2013 Dating & Relationship Plan to Find Love
A New Year is looming and this is a great time to get take stock of what happened for you last year with your efforts to find love. Now is a great time to work on fine tuning your dating and relationship plan to create one that will yield your desired results.
First ask yourself these questions:… Continue Reading