Author: Coach Amy

I’m turning 40, a husband or a baby, do I have to choose?

Turning 40 for a single woman wanting both a husband and a family can be a very difficult place to be. Today there are several choices that are available to you, especially if you have dreamed of being a mother and having a child of your own to love.

Perhaps you feel that you can’t wait for Mr. Wonderful to show up. What if he doesn’t?

And yet, while you are exploring your options you are dating and trying to meet a life partner. I know your dilemma. I too was 40 and single myself.

However, I had decided I wanted to be married if I had kids. I never considered being a single mom by choice. And yet many of my clients do and I have friends who decided to have children on their own either by donor or by adoption.

Perhaps you feel like time is running out and you can no longer wait , especially if you want to get pregnant, having a child of your own and becoming a single mom by choice.

If you are dating, what should you say to a potential date about your future plans? When is the right time to bring up this subject? And how do you think a man would react to your plans to have a baby on your own?

In this article, we will be exploring this topic.

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How to Have a Fun Memorial Day Weekend and Meet New People to Date!

The Memorial Day weekend is soon here and we will be kicking off the summer. This can cause much anxiety from my clients about what they will be doing during their holiday weekend.  With no love interest in sight, for

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You May have Tried that Already, but have You Done this Yet to Meet Quality People for Dating?

Spring is in the air and the possibility of love abounds, especially here in the mid -Atlantic and Northern US States. Perhaps you feel like you have been out there dating for a long time and have nothing to show

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028 Why Your Image Matters when You are Motivated to Marry Kimberly Seltzer

Have you upgraded your image recently?  Do you think image impacts your dating efforts?   How you dress says volumes about you.  And you only get once chance to make a first impression.  Come list this interview as I interview

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5 Reasons Why Dating for Marriage is NOT the same as just dating

Are you at the point in your life that you are ready to seek a marriage partner? Do you envision yourself as a couple that is building a future together? And, perhaps also having a family with your partner? This can be a goal of yours even if you are 28 or 64! Yes, dating for marriage takes a special mindset and strategies beyond those who are just dating.

Do you wonder why you end up in relationship with someone who is clearly not seeking marriage? And are you constantly disappointed to find yourself in relationships that don’t lead to engagement and then marriage?
Last, do you want to get off the merry-go-round of dating people who turn out not to be marriage minded?

Let me share with you 5 reasons why you need to have the KNOW HOW to date for the purpose of marriage:

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