Although it’s just another day of the year, I know this may be a difficult time for you if you are not currently dating someone and you wish to be part of a couple at this time of your life.
I just want to say, don’t give up on your dream of having a loving relationship.
The fact that you are working on yourself and are learning and growing can only serve you when you do meet that special person.
So here’s my gift for you.
I want to you to write down all the wonderful qualities you have and how you have been a caring person to others.
– What are your talents? (if you are not sure, ask your friends and family members)
– How have you given to your friends, community and family in terms of time, attention and perhaps financially?
– What are your values?
– What are your interests or passions? (how do you spend your free time?)
– And what are your reasons for wanting a relationship at this time of your life.
Write this down.
This is who you are and why someone would appreciate you.
Keep this description of you close to you.
When you doubt yourself look at this to remind yourself why someone would love you.
It hasn’t happened yet.
It will happen because it’s important to you and you won’t give up trying to find love.
Valentine’s Day is to tell (and show) those you love that you do so.
We can show our love to a child, a friend or a parent or family member. The elderly would really appreciate the attention!
I believe we should demonstrate our love all year round, not just on February 14th.
Be good to yourself and treat yourself to something fun!
All the best in life and love,